How To Speak Like A Leader

Quality is Knowledge and Practice. To begin preparing for your success, listen to episode 57 and get ready for your next leader opportunity. Remember that your success in life begins with the number one ability – To speak!

Use these ideas as the catalyst for having your ideas valued and accepted.

Use your best voice to lead business discussions

prepare your next talk,

and most importantly keep your listeners listening.

Click here for your  Perfect Phrases. 

What speaking opportunities are in your near future? Write in the comments section (under the title). Have you tried any of these practical phrases before? Which ones do you think you will try out?

Study Session- Obama’s in the House!

Use your ears so that you can improve your own speaking skills

Here are the professional techniques that you can use on your own while using a YouTube video. Listen to the podcast here-

Study listening skills using YouTube

Let me introduce you to some behind the scenes techniques. If you are studying to learn to pronounce American English, be sure that you find a native American English speaker. Although to be honest, there are many English speakers that are not native to the US that will also be using this English melody that we are listening to today. Once you find the video that you would like to study from, see if there is a transcript.

Here’s a description of how to find the youtube transcript.


Copy and paste the transcript on a word doc so that you can read along and make notations.


Also, you may want to slow the speed of the speaking.

I recommend slowing the speaking speed down  one level to .75

At this speed, you will begin to hear

  • how words are grouped together,
  • pausing in-between these word groupings
  • how the words are linked together in each phrase group and
  • one word in each phrase, that is highlighted the most, usually directly before the pause.

This practice will help you comprehend what others are saying. If you need more ideas for finding good speakers, people enjoy playing English speaking TV shows such as the sitcoms (Friends) or movies. As long as there is a transcript.  Using your own listening skills and taking the time to study this technique, is an excellent way to personally understand what you can do to polish your own abilities.



Call it whatever you want Accent Modification, Speaking Fluent English, Speaking English Clearly, or just plain ole Learning to talk better. Follow these 5 steps to become a better communicator, others will learn from you, remember you, and enjoying talking to you.



“It’s about  MELODY more than perfect pronunciation.”  -Pam


1. Finish the word! 

Pronouncing the final sounds of each word is tricky for a few reasons. First you don’t want to over-pronounce the last sound in a word. This sounds like I am contradicting myself. Say the sound but don’t push it out too much. Second, you may be able to say a word perfectly, but once you start talking faster your mouth and lips may not be able to keep up. And third, some of your sounds may be too weak-so you think you are saying the final sound- but a human ear will not hear it.  

What you think you are saying,      “I‘ll see you at five o’clock

What others hear,    “I_  see you  a_-fai_-o’claw_”

What is the big deal?  We link words together when we talk. If your last sounds are not pronounced, the important linking skill does not work.  And you will not sound smooth.


 2. Count the beats of the word. 

For example  a typical mistake for the word   Colorado is  “co-ra-do”  (3 beats). The correct pronunciation is 4 beats  “co-ler-ra-do”

The word particularly is 5 beats “par-ti-cu-lar-ly”, but a typical mistake is saying it with only 4 beats “par-ti-cu-ly”.

The word business is 2 beats “biz-nis”, but many times the mistake is saying it with 3 beats “biz-i-nis.”

What is the big deal? If you reduce the amount of syllables (or say too many) of a word, the listener is left to fill-in-the-blanks and will need a second or two to catch up with you. There will be problems with sounding choppy and a lack of understanding.


    3.       words              stand above       rest

         Some   ^            should               ^              the     ^    

If we said every word with the same voice we would put our listeners to sleep. That’s the definition of being monotone. One tone.

When we TALK like THIS, we would be HEARD, and have PERSONALITY in our CONVERSATION.

What is the big deal?  When every word sounds the same, you will sound boring and lack spark in your conversation. Put some effort into your important words. Listeners are waiting for you to emphasize the important words.


4.  Parts of a word are bigger than Other parts.

It’s my goal in life to teach everyone how to pronounce the word “develop.” If you continue to pronounce it without  the American English stress, it will sound like “devil up.”

The stress should be in the middle syllable. (VEL).  “di-VEL-lip”  Then the other syllables become smaller.

What is the big deal?  Even if you are pronouncing each sound correctly, the word will not sound like itself. While you are on the next sentence, the listener is still  wondering why they heard the word “devil.”


5.  Say some words L-O-N-G-E-R. 

Do you know that the only difference between saying “ice” and “eyes” is one sound. But the listener doesn’t care about that, as much as, the length of the word.

“ice”  ends in a /s/. This sounds like a short word with an “s” on the end.

“eyes” ends in a /z/.  This word is pronounced  L-O-N-G-E-R than the other one. It’s the length of the word (the vowel) that we are listening for. Not the  “z” pronunciation.

What is the big deal? Not all words are created equal. Listener confusion.

You’ve Got This!

So there you have it- we need to stretch some words longer, higher, and give our voice personality. We need to pronounce the correct amount of sounds and syllables and link them together in a cohesive way.  Once you can do these 5 steps you will sound fluent, more natural, and develop a confident, speaking style.

It’s all about the English melody 

for you to become a good conversationalist

and an awesome public (or private) speaker.


The hardest part is to know which skills you are doing correctly and which skills could use some help.

I have quick and easy directions so that you can show improvements within one hour. Of course, this will take some practice so that you can make it a new habit. But these are achievable goals.

If you would like a free 30-minute consultation, contact me, let’s talk- and I will advise you.

Or let’s get right to it. Let me customize our classes together and I will teach only what you need to learn.

Virtual lessons -Private or in Small group Packages. Contact me to discuss the details. No obligation to purchase.







How To Sound Clear!

Today’s Forecast, Clear Skies!

Being Clear when you are speaking should be on the top of the list of priorities. After all, if you are not talking clearly, you can bet the other person is just pretending to understand what you are saying. Listen to this weeks podcast from Pronouncing English With Pam, and practice this effective exercise for speaking clearly.

Scroll to the bottom of this post for a practice reading for you.

Good Luck and enjoy this practice.  Are there any difficult sounds that you notice when they are at the ends of words? Comment below. I always enjoying hearing  from my listeners. If you comment below, we can share our thoughts and questions together.  Photo Credit

Listen to the Episode 38: How to Sound Clear, and practice your new technique while reading this story out loud. I’ve underlined the final consonant sounds in the first two sentences to remind you!

Please call Stella. Ask her to bring three things with her from the store. Six spoons of fresh snow peas, five thick slabs of blue cheese, and maybe a snack for her brother Bob. We also need a small plastic snake and a big toy frog for the kids. She can scoop these things into three red bags and we will go meet her Wednesday at the train station.



How To Study Similar Sounds-And Learn 6 Similar Sounds While You’re At It!

Chances are that you learned to read and write English before you learned to have a conversation in English. Or maybe you were taught how to speak English from a teacher that did not have an American English accent. With all of these variables, it’s no wonder that there could be some confusion about sounds. It’s difficult enough to learn how to pronounce sounds that are not in your own native language’s sound system, how about learning how to speak English by reading words by yourself.  That is nearly impossible.  Why couldn’t we be more like the Italians and the Finnish written languages?  In their languages, each letter represents one sound so there is little ambiguity with how words should be pronounced. Lucky you.

Let’s do a study of 6 sounds. These sounds will play havoc with many languages for different reasons. So, for today’s lesson, I’d like for you to

 1. Make this chart. I put the sound symbols and unusual words in there for you.

Now, while you are listening to my podcast lesson, you can take notes inside each of these boxes. Did I say something that you would like to remember? Write it in the box! Also to help you understand how some of these  different sounds are spelled, I think it would be a good idea for you to write down the words.  Remember this is a lesson in SPEAKING ENGLISH.  So, while you are writing the word, say them out loud. Now your hand AND your mouth are moving.

Listen to  Pronounce English with Pam Podcast (below)  and

2. Repeat these sounds and words after me.  Easy-peasy (by the way, these s’s in easy-peasy sound like /z/ sounds.

3. Write these words in the correct boxes

Spelling for /s/ sound

s-     sorry, sensation, horse, this

c-     city, concept, vaccine, place, scent/cent

Spelling for / z /

z-     zero, magazine, buzz

s-     business, daisy, cheese, news, rise.  Many little words to memorize:  is, as, has, these, those

x-     exactly

Spelling for “sh”   / ʃ /

sh-    ship, Washington, wash

ce-    ocean,     ch- machine, moustache,     ci- special, official

s-     sugar,     se- nauseous,     sion- mansion,     su- tissue, sure

tion-  motion, option,      tial- partial

Spelling for “zh”  / ʒ /

g-     garage

su-     measure, treasure

si- division, vision

z-     azure, seizure

Spelling for “ch”  /t ʃ /

ch-    church, child     tch- watch, pitcher

tu-    natural, nature, situation

Spelling for “j”   / d ʒ /

dg-     judge,      du-  graduate,     di- soldier

j-     jump, injury,

g-    gentle, magic, orange     gg- exaggerate

Look for words that you use everyday. Study the sounds and 

4. repeat the words 10 times! Drill work will help your brain tell your mouth how to pronounce the sound a different way (that’s called “muscle memory”).

If you are ready to learn more about becoming the effective, confident speaker that you desire to be, consider hiring me as your private coach. I’m here to listen to your speaking style and guide you with easy-to -follow strategies. I want you to be proud of who you are and be able to take the hard work that you are putting into speaking English and become a natural 🙂

Contact me anytime.

To your success,  



Let’s meet and learn together! 7 days to go!

It’s the first day of summer and let’s celebrate! Let’s meet next week and learn a slew of American English techniques using words that end in “ATE”.

In one hour, you will learn

  • 10 new vocabulary words and use them 20 different ways.
  • how to use your voice to indicate which part of the word the listener should hear the most.
  • how to pronounce two different vowel sounds. Pam will help coach you personally!
  • that it’s fun to learn together!

The class is Thursday, July 1st. so hurry!

choose class time:   10 am (EST)  or   5 pm (EST)

Email Pam quickly!   Limit 10 people per class

Class fee $20 usd.  Once you sign-up you will receive a PayPal link (for payment) and a Zoom class link .

Practice these two words in this week’s show. I have 18 more words to share with you. I can’t wait to hear how you sound!



What Science Do You Speak? Listen for 5 minutes.

Transcript for Pronouncing English With Pam Podcast Episode 32

Listen to the podcast and read along.

There’s a Microsoft commercial that says, “Half of science is convincing the world that it matters.” Isn’t that the truth? People that I have met have jobs that are so complicated it feels like they have to dummy it down to leave half of the information out when someone asks, “So what do you do for a living?”  

Let’s think about this, when people don’t understand what you are saying, it makes your job so much harder.

For example, a patient who doesn’t understand their doctor- the patient is not going to follow their doctors orders.

When a scientist can’t convince someone to fund their research because they can’t figure out what it is that the scientist is telling them.

How about an engineer needing to convince others that their ideas will solve their problems.

A good scientist needs to be an ambassador of their own work.

It’s better communication that’s needed, especially about things that are difficult to understand or subjects that are difficult to even talk about.

When I worked in the medical field as a speech therapist, I would often be sitting in a patient’s room and a doctor would walk in and talk to the patient and their family and everyone is looking like “this is great!” and nodding their head. The doctor would walk out and the paitent or the family would look at me and say, “What did the doctor say? I didn’t understand what they meant.”

So here, in communication, the doctor had no idea that they were not being understood.

There was not enough time taken to have a conversation. To be able to talk and listen, and to be able to tell that the other person did NOT understand.

So this can happen to all of us.  We think we had a conversation when we walk away, and the other person may have had…not a clue or didn’t quite get exactly what it was that you were talking about. 

Try this!

Look at the person or people that you are talking to. 

Even on a video conference call. Talk to the camera. Give the impression that you are looking at the listener. When you are with others, it’s important to give eye contact. Try to emulate this while you are on a video call too. Look at that little hole where the camera is. 

Look at the listeners body language. 

Are they leaning forward as if they are wanting to hear you better?  Maybe they can’t hear you well enough.  

Do they look confused? Are their eyebrows going down (a furrowed eyebrow)?  

Are they turning their head to the side a little bit, trying to hear you better?

Are they asking you a question that you feel you have already answered?

These can be signs that you are not being understood.

Be sure you are giving your full attention to your audience.

Remember to smile.  And to listen.   Pay attention.  Look at the person.  Respond.

This week, I want you to practice reading the faces of other people.  Practice listening to others and smiling and paying attention. 

Take the time to be a better listener, and you will be a better speaker.

I guarantee that others will feel that connection.

If the other person is talking and you are listening, they will walk away and think, “That was a great conversation!”

So try to be a better listener this week.

Interested in private coaching? Contact me anytime.

Practicing 3 Vowel Sounds in Head-Hat-Hot

The English spelling system has 5 letters that represent the vowels  A-E-I-O-U (and sometimes Y), but when talking, these vowels have at least 20-different vowel sounds!

Pronouncing English vowels are defined by changes made with the tongue, the degree of muscle tension (tense or relaxed), and lip movements. These tiny little changes make a BIG difference successfully communicating your intended words.  For example, the comparisons below show that if  you try to pronounce a word with one vowel sound, ex: head,  but pronounce the word with a different sound, the desired word may sound more like ‘had’, ‘hat’, or ‘hot’.   This week’s podcast will help you hear the differences and give you words to practice saying the differences.

Listen to Ep. 26  Pronouncing English With Pam Podcast


/ɛ/ This is a relaxed sound. Our mouth is open slightly, lips are neutral.
pen, men, slept, head, better

/æ/ tense sound (mouth open). lips are back slightly.
fast, had, slap, clap, man, pan, Pam

/ɑ/ tense sound (mouth is open the most), lips are forward a little or neutral.
stop, daughter, fought

Can you say these two words differently?

/ɛ/ – /æ/
head -had
men -man
guess- gas
said- sad
slept -slapped
end- and
then- than

/ɑ/- /æ/

How did you do? Do you have difficulty hearing the difference between words?  Tell me in the comments below!


Pronouncing WO – Two Ways!

Wow! This week was International Women’s Day.  Let’s celebrate all of the women in our lives and their achievements. Now is the time to raise awareness against bias and make an effort to take action for equality.
In honor of all women in the world, please enjoy this lesson about pronouncing the words ‘woman’ and ‘women’.

Pronouncing the W in English requires the lips to be fully rounded and pushed forward a bit. Many of my students are able to form their lips correctly, but attaching the next vowel sound is the difficult part. In this lesson you will practice W +  (two different) vowels:

  • W + /ʊ​​​​/ the sound in the word “put”​​​ (listen to me on the recording) as in the word WOMAN
  • W + /ɪ/ the sound in the word “it” (listen to me on the recording) as in the word WOMEN.

And finally pay attention to the last syllable in both of the words:

  • woMAN and woMEN are pronounced the same even though they are spelled differently! Pronounce this reduced syllable as if you are saying “MIN”

Mastering the P Sound

Pronouncing the P Sound

Sure, it’s easy to say the /p/ sound, but if you would like to pronounce the sound the American English way, then this lesson is for you.  Do you speak English using a different accent than American English?   You may be using less air than you should be while trying to pronounce words that have the P in it. This lesson will help you understand that if the P is not pronounced with enough air, it will sound like a B. My name would sound like “Bam!” instead of Pam, or the listener may hear “Boar” (a pig!) instead of the word ‘poor’.

The tongue twister in this lesson: Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers. If Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers, how pecks of pickled peppers did Peter Piper pick?  That’s 18 P’s to practice!

Please comment below and tell me if this P sound is easy (or hard) for you to pronounce using the American English way.  Include your native language. I would love to hear from you!